Many of the tips and tricks that help us to get by in everyday life also come into play in our relationships.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
That’s also true of proactiveness.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
After all, relationships are another facet of our lives.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
So if you are good at planning what you’ll wear to work the day before or are someone who can accurately guess how a certain amount of seasoning will taste in your food, you might have an encouraging dose of protectiveness in you.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n
But what exactly is protectiveness, why do we need it in our relationships, and how can we inject it into them? This article will answer those questions.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
It’s not as if there’s a definition of protectiveness that is customized to relationships.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
We will just take the usual definition of the term that we are used to and apply it in the context of relationships. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
The Merriam-Webster dictionary defines proactive as acting in anticipation of future problems, needs, or changes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Evidently, protectiveness is the quality of someone who is proactive, or does something about future situations before they occur rather than always waiting for them to happen.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
That means, a person who is proactive in his relationships thinks about what could happen next and how he can be in control of it. He takes charge. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
For that to happen, anyone in a relationship needs to act based on facts and reason, rather than on emotion and the fears they might encounter. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
You can now see that it takes quite a lot of effort to be proactive in a relationship. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
It involves thinking about the other person, understanding their needs, feelings, and worries, and taking the initiative wherever possible.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Being proactive matters a lot, whether you are just starting a relationship or are well into it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
If you are in a relationship, think about how it started\u2014the opening words, gestures, situations, etc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Maybe it all started with a simple, cheerful greeting or an offer to assist with carrying something heavy. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Well, the fact that the relationship clicked is a sign that you didn’t just let that time slide by without doing something.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Besides, you also overcame your fears\u2014of rejection, sounding awkward, being laughed at, and so on.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
And now, the relationship continues. Every time you call your partner to say, “hi honey, I miss you,” or you make dinner before your partner arrives home from work, you send a clear signal that this person is important to you. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
What’s the point? If one is not proactive, they could miss out on opportunities to start and enjoy great relationships.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
The other noteworthy point is that not being proactive can also make the relationship crumble. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Failing to do what sends a clear message of love and attachment can turn romantic partners into mere roommates who barely cope with each other.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Relationships don’t come easy. They entail a lot of work. They also crash easily.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
But failure in relationships rarely comes abruptly. Most times, it knocks first. In the space between when failure is knocking and when the relationship actually crashes, there is a lot a couple can do to be proactive and continue sailing steadily and happily. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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